Release The Cows
I have noticed amongst many of my friends (my wife and I included)
lately involved in efforts to downsize, quit collecting/consuming
stuff, and let many things in life go to live simpler more
uncluttered (and uncomplicated lives). Whenever I bring the subject
up in mixed groups, I often everything from "what do you mean you
don't want more" to that's just Un-American (to not consume or
desire). Renunciation is a big word and I use it often when referring
to this subject. For me it simply means really looking at life, and
inward at myself and realizing I already have everything I need to be
truly happy. We all do and we were born with these qualities.
Living a simple life and using ones own natural abilities and talents
to improve the quality of life (instead of thinking you can buy
improvements) reminds me of a story about the Buddha:
One day the Buddha was sitting in the woods with several monks. They
had an excellent lunch and were enjoying the company of each other. A
farmer was passing by and was very unhappy. He asked the Buddha and
the monks whether they had seen his cows passing by. The Buddha said
they had not seen any cows passing by. The farmer then informed
everyone of how unhappy he was. I have twelve cows and I always must
chase after them and tend to them. I have also a few acres of a
sesame seed plantation and the keeping the insects from eating
everything takes up my time when I am not tending my cows. The work
is almost too much to bear.
The Buddha said, My friend, we have not seen any cows passing by
here. You might like to look for them in the other direction. So the
farmer thanked him and hurried off. The Buddha turned to the monks
and said, My dear friends, you are some of happiest people I know.
You have no cows to lose and enjoy the natures land without the need
to possess it. If you were to own these things, you would be very
busy with little time left for living.
The lesson is simple, but who is willing to let go and live a simpler
life? Part of being happy is realizing that we have to learn the art
of cow releasing. We release the cows one by one. In the beginning we
think that those cows were essential to our happiness, and we tried
to get more and more cows. Quickly we start you realize (hopefully)
that cows are not really conditions for our happiness; they
constitute an obstacle for our happiness.
That is why I am determined to release my cows. How about you?
Peace and Love, Jim